Growing up, dinner was more than just a meal—it was a cornerstone of family life. Every evening, we gathered around the table, transforming it into a space for connection, reflection, and growth. These moments, shared over food, instilled in me a deep sense of gratitude and ignited my curiosity about the world beyond our home.
We talked about everything at the dinner table. From the highs and lows of our school day to the pressing issues in our community, no topic was off-limits. My parents encouraged open conversations, fostering a sense of awareness and responsibility in my siblings and me. One recurring theme was gratitude. We often spoke about how fortunate we were to have food on the table each night and how not everyone in our community had a meal on their table at night. These conversations planted the seeds of empathy and a desire to serve.
When I was eight, our community faced a major drought—a crisis that was impossible to ignore. I still remember the dinner conversation where we discussed the drought and the ways we could conserve water as a family. My curiosity was piqued, and my mom took it a step further by bringing me to Lake Moultrie to see the drought’s impact firsthand. Walking onto the dry lakebed, surrounded by tree stumps and cracks in the earth, was a moment I’ll never forget. It was one thing to talk about the drought, but witnessing it transformed my understanding of its severity. That combination of dinner table discussion and real-world experience made me want to take action.
One of my earliest initiatives was creating a toothbrush that taught kids to conserve water with the help of Dr. Fresh. It might seem like a small step, but for me, it was a tangible way to make a difference. Looking back, I can see how those conversations around the dinner table gave me the confidence and motivation to pursue creative solutions to real-world problems.
Then came the cabbage. When I was in third grade, I grew a 40-pound cabbage as part of the Bonnie Plants Third-Grade Cabbage Program. Once again, the dinner table became the setting for another pivotal conversation. We talked about what to do with the cabbage, and reflecting on my dad’s word of gratitude for the food we had the idea of donating it to a local soup kitchen emerged. That decision was life-changing. It wasn’t just about the cabbage; it was about recognizing the impact one small action could have on someone’s life. That moment ultimately led me to start Katie’s Krops, a nonprofit that has helped feed thousands of people through youth-led gardens.
The nightly conversations around our dinner table shaped who I am today. My parents didn’t just teach us to talk about issues; they taught us to act on them. They showed me the importance of listening, learning, and serving others—values that continue to guide me in everything I do.
For parents reading this, know that those small, consistent moments around the dinner table can have a profound impact. Encourage your kids to share, to ask questions, and to dream big. You never know which conversation might spark a lifelong commitment to making the world a better place.
Reflecting on my journey, I’m deeply grateful for the lessons learned at our family table. It wasn’t just a place for meals but the foundation for a life of service, curiosity, and gratitude. I am so excited for the day I am able to turn my own dinner table into a place for my children to share their hopes and dreams and foster meaningful conversations about our world.